Find out more about our relationship workshops below. A healthy and successful relationship means a healthy and successful life. Participants stand to win free week-end breakaways worth thousands of rands.
(* Terms and conditions apply.)

For more information ontact us office hrs on: 011 7886325 or 084 7203404.
We are located in Parkhurst Johannesburg.

(6) Personal and/or Professional Relationships

• Ultimate Epidemic Tragedy ‘Multi generational dysfunction stems from founding families
It is then absorbed by their children’s children, a deadly ripple of misery extending down generations. Dependencies change.
An alcoholic sires a workaholic who sires a compulsive that spends her way to bankruptcy. Her obese son sired a drug addict with a bullying infant… The dysfunction wreaking damage! We treat them, their spouses, children and their children Statistics estimate that most dependent off spring are addicts and each severely impacts other people. 5 Million Addicts have +-28 million adult children that suffer from childhood experiences. Actual figures are much higher with serious consequences. This is a deadly epidemic!
What about you? Is codependency at the root of your unhappiness? Do you want to heal? Do it for you and your children or the impact will warp and condemn generations. Unless you break the cycle!’

• Information regarding relationships You can’t level construction sites with picks and shovels You need heavy tools and machines. You may feel seeking help has a stigma attached suggesting you can’t sort out your life but it’s the intelligent that seeks help. We don’t judge we simply help you to reverse destructive tendencies and allow independence to prevail and counter backwards sliding. People are born dependent but some remain victims.
They fall prey to persecutors that blame others instead of taking responsibility for their own behavior. Later they meet a rescuer that interfere and criticize thinking they can do things better but they actually disempower others which is painful and has nothing to do with love. Love may seem elusive… We fall in love but we all have hidden triggers.
When love goes wrong we stubbornly act inappropriately instead of seeking help.
Do you recognize yourself in one or more of the following situations? If you do you need assistance to eliminate that condition in order to find real and lasting happiness.
She wants to talk and He wants to fix
• Types of Co-dependent Relationships Compelled vs Chosen
These two are intense and tied together with invisible tape and the slightest tug in one cause a reaction in the other. Every thing is weighed against the other’s imagined response. If healthy they would be close without the desperate need and act towards their best interest, and if one responds wrongly they will talk it out and grow.

Control vs Willingness to Surrender
A critical domineering parent forces the other parent to over control in the opposite direction and their children will control others. Healthy parents share power that will later manifest as a boss that delegate, a gentle husband or a mom that give kid’s freedom to learn.
Fear of Abandonment vs Fellowship.
If dad skips out on the family or mom dumps dad and the kids it’s called abandonment. But if you decide to date once a week instead of nightly it’s not abandonment. Healthy breathing space is rejection for codependents for they are terrified of being forsaken and will do any thing to stay together. Opposite fear is trust in your partner and the relationship.
Illusion of Strength vs Real Strength
Weak people has a need to derive strength from the need of their partner but this repels true healing. Healthy people are together yet separate entities in a mutual role. Herein lays real strength. Melodramatic vs Consistence
Strife breeds violence as they fluctuate from love to hate and graph lines will vary dramatically. Compare this to the space between two lines that record the rhythms of a healthy relationship where the partners pursue different facets of life.
Narrow Focus vs Broad Support
A pie chart will consist of different life role wedges. In malignant relationships the friendship wedge is eliminated and if other slices exist they’re reduced. Picture one pillar supporting a building; whack the pillar out and it crashes. But with three remaining pillars the building survives. Do you have support? Possessive vs Trusting
Commitment Jealous insecurity stretches beyond normal uncertainties of life and suspects every person plus seeks evidence thereof; any hint triggers a fight. Genuine commitment gives latitude for trust and accepts normal contact with others
Repetitive Compulsion vs Openness
Unresolved childhood issues doom us to unconsciously restage our past and deny the chance to deal with what we consciously deny. If you dealt with the past properly you are free to grow in a healthy situation.
Stock Market Syndrome vs Self-esteem
The one is tied to the other’s moods i.e. if he’s up she’s up and when he’s unhappy she’s unhappy, she doesn’t control her emotions she react to his. Rather offer strong support and nurturance but satisfy your own needs and display a healthy independence.
Threatened vs Preserved Identity
Like Siamese Twins they feed upon a mutual illusion that each half person needs the other half in order to feel complete. They would realize their full potential if they allow freedom to grow. If there’s a break through death etc life will go on despite grief but there won’t be a loss of self. Healing is a process to learn what brings love, respect and appreciation And what to leave alone.
Love is a choice, make it today and we will assist you to break free from old thought patterns and habits.
We can also heal and unite our Nation
Jesus said he’s preparing many different homes, could it be for different nationalities, beliefs, colours and genders? God gave us diversions of gifts i.e. Knowledge, Wisdom, Healing, Prophecy etc. and there are diversities of operations but the same Creator Our Creator will have different names in different lands and languages. It is time to leave the past in the past and grow towards the future It is time to accept and tolerate each other for the alternative is war and we had enough destruction. Past hurtful experiences cause tension, disappointment and arguments Please allow us to become your tools that assist you to like, love and respect yourself. Don’t allow people to manipulate you and don’t manipulate others. Don’t gossip or listen to gossip and speak your truth quietly. The reward will be self-acceptance, confidence and happiness.
Spiritual Guidance is the answer
The answer to heal our emotional needs and deep hunger for real love and a healthy relationship.
• Relationship Workshops 3 Day 9am-5pm Jo’burg Workshops
This is the best kept secret in Gauteng:
Here the emphasis is on healing your soul. The décor of Spiritual Guidance is a mix of homely antique comfort with scenic wall murals that compliment the small verdant angelic garden that’s home to loeries, hadedas, cats, frogs, gliding gold fish and tropical foliage. Here time stands still and you forget you are in the city.
This is where celebs and corporate senior staff learn to remain sane in a crazy world.
Lunch & refreshments incl: - Price for 3 days R2800 3 Day 9am-5pm Major Cities Workshops Same as Jo’burg Workshops 3 Day DBB Retreats in the Bushveld 3 Day 9am-4pm Workshops. 90 min from Pretoria & Jo’burg. Our professional staff provides information so you can take your first step towards success. You pay for alcoholic beverages: - Price for 3 days R2800 plus Accommodation with two meals R1400 = R4200. Stay the 4th day free to enjoy nature walks or just relax at the pool on a self catering basis.
We make Relationships Work
You can’t level construction sites with picks and shovels. You need heavy tools and machines. You may feel seeking help has a stigma attached suggesting you can’t sort out your life but it’s the intelligent that seeks help. We don’t judge we simply help you to reverse destructive tendencies and allow independence to prevail and counter backwards sliding. Relationships are complex and love can go wrong when two individuals share limited space.
Seek help early or it may be too late!
• Relationship Recovery Program Invest in yourself to make changes and grow.
We will assist and guide you through life changing steps just like we changed our own damaging habits with these proven plans using interactive questions, self tests and exercises.

• Relationship Recovery Program
Invest in yourself to make changes and grow We will assist and guide you through life changing steps just like we changed our own damaging habits with these proven plans using interactive questions, self tests and exercises.

First Day
9am Introduction Movie. Explore past and present Examine relationship history. Reset boundaries Master compulsion & addiction Said goodbyes for healing? Grieving bottom of emotion curve. But also the start upward 5-7pm Free Time 7-8pm Braai 830-940pm. Close of Day Movie
Second Day
9am Introduction Movie Gain perception make decisions. Build foundations from new experiences Rebuild past present & future.Become involved in re-parenting.Guest Speaker. A Guest Speaker. A 5-7pm Free Time 7-8pm Braai 830-940pm Close of Day Movie
Third Day
9am Speaker B. Speaker C. Establish accountability for new and refreshed relationships. Embark on a maintenance program to keep you on tract. Avoid back sliding. The Secret Mov